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The variety of adult toys is surprising. Sex toys change from purely male or purely female adult toys to toys which you can use by both sexes. Additionally, there are some sex toys that can also be classified as sex aids or marital aids.

THE OBJECTIVE OF Sex Toys

Some adult toys aid the man’s erection, stimulate the feminine genitals to become more sensitive or give a different feel to ‘normal’ sex. Other adult toys provide an ‘environment’ for variations in sex, for instance so called orgy bed sheets. Sometimes they are used to greatly help a person who has difficulty with unaided sex to accomplish sexual satisfaction. However most adult toys provide a new solution to directly stimulate the male or female genitals to attain sexual satisfaction.

Using sex toys can provide new experiences and variation in the sexual experience. Additionally, it may give a fantasy element for enhancing or revitalising a relationship.

The usual expectation is a sex toy provides direct stimulation of the genitals in foreplay and/or during sexual activity or as a means to obtain orgasm through only the stimulation supplied by the sex toy.

Types of Sex Toys

Vibrating Sex Toys

Probably the most well known sex toys are ‘vibrators’ which, as the name suggests, provide stimulation of the genitals using vibration. They’re mainly used to stimulate the clitoris, but could also be used to stimulate any other section of the female body or that of a man’s.

The simplest of these are pencil or wand shaped (though normally thicker when compared to a pencil). They often have an internal battery (or two) which powers a little electric motor. Sometimes the battery pack and controller are external and connected to the vibrator by a wire. This motor is fitted with a small, out of balance, weight attached to the shaft. As this weight rotates it throws the motor and vibrator into a small circular movement which causes the vibration you feel.

With a vibrator that has a controller, as the power is increased the speed of the motor increases and with it both rate and strength of vibration. 情趣玩具 Both the strength and rate of vibration effects how stimulating you discover the sex toy. The best effect might not be as strong so when fast as possible. The optimum settings may well change as your degree of excitement builds. To get the very best results it is worth buying a vibrator which is controllable.

Different vibrators could have different characteristics and you may well find you like one combination much more than another and your preference may even vary depending on which part of the body you are stimulating.

More recently electronic vibrator controllers have appeared which provide not only the static control of power/speed but also permit you to select patterns of power pulses and surges. These can be very effective.

There are also other vibrating sex toys such as butterfly stimulators and vibrating penis rings.

Other Powered Sex Toys

There are some adult toys that use other ways to supply mechanical stimulation. These usually depend on a motor which makes the masturbator continually change its shape which provides a sort of rotational movement or makes it move back and forth. The back and forth movements are sometimes powered by an air pump rather than a motor. The movements have been used to create, for example, mechanical licking tongues, vibrators that ‘penetrate’ the vagina and mouth simulators to give a man a ‘blow job’.

On a bigger scale and many more expensive, you can find ‘sex machines’ that incorporate thrusting and vibrating dildos.

Combination Sex Toys

So far we’ve covered vibrating, moving and thrusting sex toys. Because you can have guessed these are all offered in a bewildering selection of combinations.

A common combination in many ‘Rabbit Style’ vibrators is clitoral stimulation using vibrations and vaginal stimulation using movement and sometimes a thrusting motion as well.

Many adult toys add varying textures with their surfaces; a dildo or vibrator could have ridges or soft spikes or a rippled shape.

Sensation Change Sex Toys

Some sex toys rather than provide vibrating or moving stimulation, change the feel of sex.

For instance there are a number of sleeves to put on the penis to provide different sensations for both partners while engaged in penetrative sex.

You can find rings that squeeze the base of the penis and/or tighten the scrotum that assist the man’s erection and in addition changes his sensations. There are penis extenders and thickeners which may provide a man’s partner greater sensations during penetration.

There are a wide selection of lubricants that may significantly change the feel of sex.

There are PVC and Polyurethane bed sheets which are water and oil proof that can be used for slippery or messy sex.

Why Use A Sex Toy?

A good question is: why do people work with a masturbator? Surely fingers, tongues, penises, clitorises and vaginas etc all provide great sexual stimulation and enjoyment.

Well, aside from therapeutic uses (eg erection assistance), adult toys can drive the imagination (being taken by way of a machine), provide variety (new ways to do old things), vary the stimulating effects in otherwise normal sex (penis sleeves) plus some can provide experiences not possible with ‘normal body parts’ (particularly vibrating sex toys and electro-stimulation).

Where To Start

Assuming you have not tried a masturbator before and don’t yet have a good idea of everything you might like, try one of the simpler vibrators first. Almost certainly you will enjoy the experience and then begin to wonder what other delights are available with more sophisticated vibrators and other sex toys …